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Post by ladyofintegrity on Apr 4, 2009 22:37:03 GMT -5
Dating an unsaved person is definitely wrong, because the BIBLE warns against it, meaning that God is against it, and thus meaning that we, as Christians trying to walk in obedience to God's Word, should stay away from such relationships. That's the mean reason why a Christian should not date an unsaved persons, but other than that there are a lot of consequences that follow one's disobedience to God's word regarding being unequally yoked, and just for walking in disobedience to any part of God's Word for that matter!
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Post by madpastor1@gmail.com on Apr 5, 2009 9:19:43 GMT -5
agreed totaly with you couldn't have put it better my self
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Post by firekid on Apr 14, 2009 11:36:50 GMT -5
one thing i learn iz u cant tell someone to get save they have to do dat by dey self , so if dat person is not on dat GOD run u think by u goin with dat person u cud convert them wrong dat person wud convert u faster than u cud convert them . A non Christian can convert u faster cause they wud be like lets go to dis party u no their is nothing good coming out of dis party but u still go ,cause u think by goin to dat party u cud convert them n there friends ,well dats not true.u wud find yourself non save too.So dats why it is good to wait on GOD dnt rush into anything
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Post by madpastor1@gmail.com on Apr 17, 2009 16:29:00 GMT -5
it's amazing that not plent folks haven't commented on this one but alot of church girls really do get decieved into thinking that they can change a person, you can't don't b fooled. I have seen fellas pretend to get saved and when the lady marries them they totally switch. Then I have seen young ladies active in church doing their thing for God and they hook up with some nappy headed negro and their attendance in church drops, they begin to comprimise and all of a sudden they totally backslide it's sad and I pray that this trend changes but all in all seems like folks scared to touch this topic lol
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Post by sapphirej on Apr 17, 2009 17:27:19 GMT -5
well I sort of have a different viewpoint on this situation.. I was showed that there are individuals who are saved and doesnt have a good heart. And on the contrary there are those who are out there in the world who has a good heart. Now God looks at the man's heart! So we cant really judge someone and be like hey because you aint saved I cant date you. However, I know the word says that we must not be unequally yoked... but did you ever think two people who are saved can still be unequally yoked? So thats where the ball is like thrown in the air because its a lot to take in. But honestly I tried it, but I could understand a guy could have a good heart and isnt saved but my thing is what do we have to relate to? I want to grow in Christ is he going to help me? I mean it aint like i looking for someone who drinks and smokes etc because thats not the qualities i look for. But to me Christ makes up the most things we should have in common and if we dont have Him in common then I dont feel it can go far. And then with that it will be where I will compromise too much because he doesnt have the word as his morals.
Then again every individual should take this into consideration, if that person you are interested in doesnt love God, how can that person then love you? think about it... I challenege you today (smile)
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Post by princessnicky on Apr 18, 2009 21:22:12 GMT -5
dred sapphire really gat a sister tinkin deep on dat 1
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Post by fire4000 on Apr 29, 2009 10:50:51 GMT -5
Well based on what i have learned in the BIBLE, according to the dating non believers...how can to walk lest they agree? thats it? HOW? And if to people have CHRIST its a good start, now its up to those individuals to seek the face of GOD at the time they are dating to see if they're compatible & if this is who the LORD has for them...basically traditionally, its the man who finds the wife,but these days women finding the men, which leads sometimes the female being the dominant one in the relationship!! And thats not how the LORD intended it to be...but hey this is the society we live in, there is a generation of females who cant cook,clean or take care of a house hold & a generation of young men who cant provide or lead a house hold, so its hard but the question is how will you react when its your time to find a wife or wait for a husband?...talk is cheap, lets be the difference!!
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